| Answer:  Both carry reward-- this is certain; which carries 
more is not. So, besides thinking of the reward -- which you are going to get in 
both cases --, I would earnestly advise you to use your common sense and 
judgement in taking this decision; you should think more about the adjustment 
and the compatibility factor of the family and of the lady herself with you and 
your family. I would even advise you to settle for less reward if the 
compatibility factor is not there in a particular case   |