Answer: In all such verses, it is implied that pious women
will be rewarded with pious men. This is not explicitly stated because such a
mention is against modesty -- a value that has almost become extinct in present
times. Hayā (translated as modesty for want of a better word) is a fundamental
feature of Muslim women as per the Qur’ān. It is against the norms of Hayā to
say in words that women would be rewarded with men, though this is an understood
fact.
It needs to be appreciated that the norms of modesty are
different for the two, and, perhaps this difference is very difficult to
communicate to the modern mind because of the influence of feminism on it. I’ll
try to explain this to you, but I also admit at the outset that this is
something to be felt and not something about which arguments can be given. The
fact that Islamic societies have always given more protection to women and have
been always more sensitive about women and their reputation is something we can
start with as regards this difference. The fact that a boy has girl friends is a
bad thing in Islamic societies, but the fact that a girl has boy friends is not
just bad -- it is criminal. Parents would lovingly say to their sons: ‘We are
going to bring a charming wife for you’, but they would seldom say to their
daughters: ‘We are going to bring a handsome husband for you’. So you see this
difference in attitude is present in such societies and allow me to say that it
is the call of human nature -- a nature that has not been perverted or
influenced by extremism. The Qur’ān has only given due regard to this attitude
and inclination innately found in human nature.
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