Answer:
In this regard, my observations are as follows:
1. Common sense is a great gift of God which people tend to forget. While
planning a family, using one’s common sense is imperative. For example, if
one’s wife is not in a position to bear or raise more kids owing to medical,
emotional or psychological reasons, then this must be given due regard.
Similarly, whether parents would be able to give enough attention to the new
born is also something which must be decided. Similarly, if the size of the
existing family is such that the parents cannot afford more children, then
this is also another factor that must be considered. This does not negate
that the Almighty is the Sustainer of all human beings because He has not
taken the responsibility to provide sustenance to everyone person born on
this earth. On the contrary, He has created us to try and test us and for
this He sometimes gives little sustenance to a family and to another He
gives sustenance in abundance. Man must plan to obtain sustenance according
to the scheme and will of the Almighty. No doubt the Almighty has bestowed
this earth with ample food resources but it is up to man to benefit from
them by understanding this scheme.
2. I think that Muslims must do away with the habit of blaming the West to
cover their follies. To me it is unethical to conclude that family planning
is a conspiracy hatched by the West against the Muslims simply because this
is all conjecture. One can never have certain knowledge of someone’s
intentions.
3. The strength of Muslim population does not depend upon their numbers: it
depends upon their superiority in ethics and morality and in science and
technology.
4. The government instead of fixing the number of children for a family
should educate the masses that they should use their common sense while
planning a family. Some families may need two and others may need four or
six children. It all depends on the circumstances each family is in.
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