Answer: I am sorry to hear
that some woman is contriving to ruin your marital life. She is certainly
incurring a grave sin and if she does not stop, she will meet a dreadful
fate in the Hereafter and very likely in this world too.
Two sūrahs from the Holy
Qur’ān namely Sūrah al-Falaq and Sūrah al-Nās would be helpful in this
regard. Ask your husband to learn their meanings and recite them whenever he
finds time in his day while pondering on the message both sūrahs
communicate. You may please know that there is no strong and lasting shelter
than the shelter of God from all that is evil. These sūrahs are in fact
supplications; whoever utters these finds himself under the supreme
protection of Allah. He feels that he is wreathed by the divine circle of a
large squad of angels who protect him all the time as he seeks his Lord’s
refuge.
In addition, you and your
husband also need to establish your obligatory prayers five times a day.
After saying your obligatory prayer, you should pray to the Lord for your
husband. I believe no one can pray for him as sincerely as you—his wife—can
do.
There are two other
supplications of the Prophet (sws), which you and your husband may recite
whenever be in distress. These are:
حَسْبُنَا اللَّهُ وَنِعْمَ الْوَكِيلُ عَلَى اللَّهِ
تَوَكَّلْنَا (تِرْمَذِى رَقَم:
٣٣٥٥)
Allah is sufficient for
us. He is the best disposer of affairs. In Allah [only] we repose trust. (Tirmidhi,
No: 3355)
إِنَّا لِلَّهِ وَإِنَّا إِلَيْهِ رَاجِعُونَ اللَّهُمَّ
أْجُرْنِي فِي مُصِيبَتِي وَأَخْلِفْ لِي خَيْرًا (مُسْلِم رَقَم:
١٥٦٥)
We belong to Allah and
to Him shall we return; O Allah reward me for my affliction and give me
something better in exchange for it. (Muslim, No: 1565)
Spells often cause
psychological effects, as you mentioned about your husband that he forgets
things. I would very humbly suggest that if this woman is from among your
relatives or in a position where you and your husband have to see her, you
both should immediately rearrange your plans as to avoid even having a look
at her. Your husband especially needs to never come in any sort of contact
with her. Let her do, in his absence, what she pleases but ask your husband
not to see her anyway. I am very hopeful this will greatly help. |