Nikāh renders both of you legally husband and wife.
This entails two things. First, you both have legal right to live together and
establish marital relationship. Second, you both have some responsibilities
towards each other.
The marital relationship in the present situation cannot be
objected to on legal grounds. In other words, you would not be sinning in the
eyes of the Sharī‘ah if you have a physical relationship with him. The issue
here is related more to the social norms and customs of our society. The society
we live in would not accept this situation. If it comes to know this kind of
relationship between you both, it is bound to react strongly. Therefore, I would
suggest that you to talk to your husband on the matter of social norms. It is in
fact the society which accepts your being husband and wife not for its own
benefit rather it makes sure that any of the party does not neglect their
duties. If such a couple has a sexual relationship and the woman gets pregnant,
it would also harm her repute. In some cases, the husband would prefer this
situation as it relieves him of his responsibilities.
You should thus try to convince your husband that such a
thing is not socially acceptable. He should try to bring you over as soon as