Compassion is a core human value. It is the foundation of
human bonding. To feel for others especially and to treat them
with compassion is what humanity is all about. It should start
from those closest to us but should never stop even for people
who are far away from us and inflicted with misery or stress.
Compassion is found naturally in every human being. It is only
circumstances and desensitization that at times mitigate it.
At other times, it is simply laziness and lethargy which
prevents us from embarking upon some of its practical
requisites.
Its expression should be more potent when we see misery around
us. People living in shanties and those who are shelterless,
the sick who need constant care, the handicapped in despair,
the bereaved who have lost a dear one, the elderly who are in
agony, the animals that are wounded and the plants that are
withering away should make us pour out our compassion like a
gushing fountain.
A more subtle case for compassion is people whose
circumstances may be hidden from us or the precarious
conditions in which they live are not readily apparent. They
are ones whose self-esteem does not let them disclose the woes
they are suffering. It is on such occasions that we must make
some extra effort and not merely be satisfied on what things
apparently seem. A deeper concern and a keen eye can reveal
their anguish.
A case can only be made for self-compassion. It means that
just as we must show compassion to others, our own selves also
are in need of it. We must not be unkind and unforgiving to
our own selves. At times deep remorse induces us to punish our
selves and deprive our selves of pleasures of life. One should
be remorseful before God and seek His forgiveness. Remaining
in a perpetual state of guilt damages our self-confidence. |