1. Spreading Hearsay
عَنْ حَفْصِ بِنْ عَاصِمٍ قال قال رَسُوْلَ
اللّٰهِ صَلَّي اللّٰهُ عَلَیْهِ
وَسَلَّمَ كَفَي بِالْمَرْءِ كَذِبًا أَنْ يُحَدِّثَ بِكُلِّ ما
سمع
Hafs ibn ‘Asim (rta) stated that God’s Messenger (sws) said:
“It is enough for a person to be regarded a liar if he
narrates every thing he hears [without verifying it].”
2. Some Major Sins
عَبْد الرحمن بن أبي بَكْرَةَ عَنْ أبيه قال
كنا عِنْدَ رَسُوْلَ اللّٰهِ صَلَّي اللّٰهُ عَلَیْه
وَسَلَّمَ فقال ألا أُنَبِّئُكُمْ بِأَكْبَرِ الْكَبَائِرِ
ثَلَاثًا الْإِشْرَاكُ بِاللَّهِ وَعُقُوقُ الْوَالِدَيْنِ
وَشَهَادَةُ الزُّورِ أو قَوْلُ الزُّورِ وكان رَسُوْلَ اللّٰهِ
صَلَّي اللّٰهُ عَلَیهِ
وَسَلَّمَ مُتَّكِئًا فَجَلَسَ فما زَالَ يُكَرِّرُهَا حتي
قُلْنَا لَيْتَهُ سَكَتَ
Abu Bakrah (rta) said: “[Once] we were with God’s Messenger (sws).
He said: ‘Should I not inform you about the three greatest of
the major sins? [They are:] Associating with God, disobeying
parents and [giving] a false statement or a false testimony.’
And [while he was saying this,] God’s Messenger (sws) was
leaning on a support. He [then] sat [upright] and continued to
repeat these words until we wished that he become silent.”
3. Kindness to Servants
عَبْدَ اللّٰهِ بن عُمَرَ يقول جاء رَجُلٌ
إلي النبي صَلَّي اللّٰهُ عَلَیهِ
وَسَلَّمَ فقال يا رَسُوْلَ اللّٰهِ كَمْ نَعْفُو عن الْخَادِمِ
فَصَمَتَ ثُمَّ أَعَادَ عليه الْكَلَامَ فَصَمَتَ فلما كان في
الثَّالِثَةِ قال اعْفُوا عنه في كل يَوْمٍ سَبْعِينَ مَرَّةً
‘Abdullah ibn ‘Umar (rta) says that a person came to the
Prophet (sws) and asked him: “O Messenger of God! How many
times should we forgive our servant?” At this, he remained
silent. The question was repeated to him and he [still
remained] silent. When he was posed the question a third time,
he replied: “Forgive him seventy times every day.”
4. Sanctity of Life, Wealth and Honour
عَنْ بن
عُمَرَ رَضِيْ اللّٰهُ عَنْهُما قال قال النبي صَلَّي اللّٰهُ
عَلَیهِ
وَسَلَّمَ بِمِنًي أَتَدْرُونَ أَيُّ يَوْمٍ هذا قالوا اللّٰه
وَرَسُولُهُ أَعْلَمُ قال فإن هذا يَوْمٌ حَرَامٌ أَفَتَدْرُونَ
أَيُّ بَلَدٍ هذا قالوا اللّٰه وَرَسُولُهُ أَعْلَمُ قال بَلَدٌ
حَرَامٌ أَتَدْرُونَ أَيُّ شَهْرٍ هذا قالوا اللّٰه وَرَسُولُهُ
أَعْلَمُ قال شَهْرٌ حَرَامٌ قال فإن اللّٰهَ حَرَّمَ عَلَيْكُمْ
دِمَاءَكُمْ وَأَمْوَالَكُمْ وَأَعْرَاضَكُمْ كَحُرْمَةِ
يَوْمِكُمْ هذا في شَهْرِكُمْ هذا في بَلَدِكُمْ هذا
‘Abdullah ibn ‘Umar (rta) stated that the Prophet (sws) [in
the sermon of the last hajj] at Mina asked: “Do you know what
day this is?” The companions replied: “God and the Messenger
know.” The Prophet (sws) remarked: “This is the sacred day. So
do you know which city is this?” The companions replied: “God
and the Messenger know.” The Prophet (sws) said: “This is the
sacred city. Do you know which month is this?” The companions
replied: “God and the Messenger know.” The Prophet (sws) said:
“This is the sacred month.” He [further] said: “Indeed, God
has made your lives, your wealth, and your honour as sacred as
this day of yours in this month of yours in this city of
yours.”
5. Etiquette of Eating
عُمَرَ بن أبي سَلَمَةَ يقول كنت غُلَامًا في
حَجْرِ رَسُوْلَ اللّٰهِ صَلَّي اللّٰهُ عَلَیهِ
وَسَلَّمَ وَكَانَتْ يَدِي تَطِيشُ في الصَّحْفَةِ فقال لي
رَسُوْلَ اللّٰهِ صَلَّي اللّٰهُ عَلَیهِ
وَسَلَّمَ يا غُلَامُ سَمِّ اللّٰهَ وَكُلْ بِيَمِينِكَ وَكُلْ
مِمَّا يَلِيكَ فما زَالَتْ تِلْكَ طِعْمَتِي بَعْدُ
‘Umar ibn Abi Salamah (rta) says: “I was an infant and was
being brought up under [the supervision] of God’s Messenger (sws)
when while eating my hand would circulate all over the plate.
When God’s Messenger (sws) [saw this,] he remarked: ‘Young
Man! Eat after taking God’s name with the right hand from the
part of the plate near you.’ Consequently, after this I would
eat in this manner.”
6. Moderation in Preaching
أبو وَائِلٍ خَطَبَنَا عَمَّارٌ فَأَوْجَزَ
وَأَبْلَغَ فلما نَزَلَ قُلْنَا يا أَبَا الْيَقْظَانِ لقد
أَبْلَغْتَ وَأَوْجَزْتَ فَلَوْ كُنْتَ تَنَفَّسْتَ فقال إني
سمعت رَسُوْلَ اللّٰهِ صَلَّي اللّٰهُ عَلَیهِ
وَسَلَّمَ يقول إِنَّ طُولَ صَلَاةِ الرَّجُلِ وَقِصَرَ
خُطْبَتِهِ مَئِنَّةٌ من فِقْهِهِ فَأَطِيلُوا الصَّلَاةَ
وَاقْصُرُوا الْخُطْبَةَ وَإِنَّ من الْبَيَانِ سِحْرًا
It is narrated by Abu Wa’il: “ ‘Ammar (rta) delivered a sermon
to us that was very brief and concise. When he descended [from
the pulpit] we said: ‘O Abu al-Yaqẓan! You were concise and
brief in your speech. We wish that you had gone into details.’
At his, he said: ‘I heard God’s Messenger (sws) saying: “The
lengthening of a person’s prayer and the shortness of his
sermon is a sign of his wisdom. So, increase [the time of]
your prayer and decrease [the time of] your speech. Indeed,
some sermons are [as potent as] magic.”’”
عَنْ أَبِيْ وَائِلٍ قال كان عَبْدُ اللّٰهِ
يُذَكِّرُ الناس في كل خَمِيسٍ فقال له رَجُلٌ يا أَبَا عبد
الرحمن لَوَدِدْتُ أَنَّكَ ذَكَّرْتَنَا كُلَّ يَوْمٍ قال أَمَا
إنه يَمْنَعُنِي من ذلك أَنِّي أَكْرَهُ أَنْ أُمِلَّكُمْ
وَإِنِّي أَتَخَوَّلُكُمْ بِالْمَوْعِظَةِ كما كان النبي صَلَّي
اللّٰهُ عَلَیهِ
وَسَلَّمَ يَتَخَوَّلُنَا بها مَخَافَةَ السَّآمَةِ عَلَيْنَا
It is narrated by Abu Wa’il that ‘Abdullah ibn Mas‘ud (rta)
would instruct and remind people [about religion] every
Thursday. A person from among them said: “O Abu ‘Abd al-Rahman,
I want you to remind us every day.” He replied: “I don’t do
this lest it may be burdensome on you. I remind you at
intervals the way the Prophet (sws) used to remind us at
intervals lest we become fed-up.”
7. Refraining from Arrogance
عَنْ عَبْدُ اللّٰهِ بن مَسْعُودٍ عن النبي
صَلَّي اللّٰهُ عَلَیهِ
وَسَلَّمَ قال لَا يَدْخُلُ الْجَنَّةَ من كان في قَلْبِهِ
مِثْقَالُ ذَرَّةٍ من كِبْرٍ قال رَجُلٌ إِنَّ الرَّجُلَ يُحِبُّ
أَنْ يَكُونَ ثَوْبُهُ حَسَنًا وَنَعْلُهُ حَسَنَةً قال إِنَّ
اللّٰهِ جَمِيلٌ يُحِبُّ لْجَمَالَ الْكِبْرُ بَطَرُ الْحَقِّ
وَغَمْطُ الناس
‘Abdullah ibn Mas‘ud (rta) reported
that the Prophet (sws) said: “A person in whose heart is the
slightest trace of arrogance will not enter Paradise.” A
person asked: “A person likes that his clothes be nice and his
shoes [also] be nice. [Is this not arrogance?]” The Prophet (sws)
replied: “God is beautiful and likes what is beautiful.
Arrogance [actually means] denying the truth and regarding
people to be inferior.”
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